Would u rather be a
1) mean person who's mean in others' perception
2) nice person who's nice in others' perception
3) mean person who portrays herself to be nice
4) nice person who portrays herself to be mean
???
I dislike the 1st kind of person, I doubt the 2nd kind of person, I hate the 3rd kind of person, I kinda like the 4th kind of person.
有一个主持人说: 往往，当一个人的内心不够强大，他总是需要很多外在的装饰来掩饰自己的脆弱。
To build up confidence from touchup on appearance or certain change in outward behaviour, why not focus on character building and things that are close to heart and soul? I admire people who are in the limelight for their intelligence, skills or character; I really loathe those who're in the limelight because they've been striving to be through appearance, manipulation and publicity. Superficiality won't get anyone anywhere though this's purely my own interpretation and point of view.
