Rewind

I always try to adhere to a principle when it comes to human relationships; what others say about someone shdn't affect my judgement on someone unless it is directly with referral to me and/or threatens me in a personal manner. I think this principle keeps me clear-headed and simple p^^q Do you know, even if it is ABOUT me, or actually does affect me, I would sometimes just forget it, for various reasons that maturity should be able to provide..

Let me lay out my thoughts regarding this...

If a says b is a cb, does it affect me? No, because b hasnt done anything cb to me.
if b says c is a slut, does it affect me? No, why would how many guys she slpt with has anything to do with me?
if c says d and e bitch about me? I cared, when I shdnt..... something to improve on ^^

Adhering to this principle takes out alot of energy in me.. constantly reminding urself not to form judgements on people unless they did something to u... accepting that majority of people does not stick to this principle and therefore accepting that people would form judgements on u for things that u said / done not unto them..

AND throwing away what U know about people's ridiculous judgements .... ha that's the most difficult part.

I always wonder, why people like to spread rumours about perfect strangers, maybe most gamers lack conversation topics.. LOLS. Then again, we're all culprits in our own ways sometimes, unintentionally and when emotions are not under control.

I am not an evil person; meaning.. I do not wish the worst for people that I no longer contact for various reasons. Even if they do hurt me before, or bitch about me before, argue with me before, it doesnt matter as long as she/he does not try times and again to cross my path. Let the past perish and move on... the future awaits ^^

And oh yah, the above examples are just hypothetical .. so don't try to fit urself into it.. and think too much -.-

Just so sick and tired of so many people ..... in another more positive light, it makes me see who i really need, love and feel comfortable with..